The story of how we fell in love

Monday, July 11, 2011

Sure why not

The date was set for tomorrow. Our parents had been told. The only thing left was to get the license. we borrowed a car from a friend and went down to the court house. Sine we were both military we would not have to take the blood test that had a 3-5 day waiting period. I was set to ship out in 2 days. I was excited for this adventure to begin.

We arrived and the lady at the counter gave us paperwork to fill out. We each had our own. It felt kinda ironic, I didn't have to ask my parents if I could get married but I had to ask the state. We filled out the general information. There's a question that asks if you have been previously married. I, of course, answered no. But then I thought if I ever want the answer to that question to be a yes.

No, I never want that answer to be yes. Then how do I guarantee that it wont ever be. I'm next to a man that loves me but times will change and so will people. Will he continue to love me during those changes? I barely know the man. I'm discovering basic facts like where he grew up and about his parents. Things we never felt the need to talk about before. Could I make this work or would it be a phase and something we would dissolve in year? a month? a week? I want to do this. I am a determined woman and once I set my mind to it, I get it done.

We turned in out papers to the counter. The lady looked at our papers and then collected our money. She then turned to us and said "for $20 more the judge can marry you."we both looked at each other and perhaps afraid that the reality of all this would be too much I answered "sure why not."

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