For our anniversary my friend offered to take the kids so I could surprise him. He went to school till about noon so I expected him home somewhere near 1 or maybe a little after if he was buying me a present. So I dropped off the kids around 11 and I went shopping to buy some lingerie so that I could surprise him appropriately. I got home and changed and then took my clothes and led them to the bedroom. I had music on.. my favorite Joe. I then sat on the bed and waited… I waited…. and waited…. and waited. I finally took a nap.

I woke up when he walked in the house. It was 4 pm in the afternoon. He came upstairs and had brought home food. Apparently for my present he went on the search for mexican food for me. He knew that I missed carne asada so he had gone on a mission to find authentic mexican food. He knew that I did not like the imitation stuff. He had asked around and finally found one halfway between pensacola and mobile alabama.

I was not happy. And what made me more unhappy was that he didn't understand why I was not happy. We still talk about that night and I still think he doesn't understand.